40 First Dates

Upon learning that I was expecting I knew that I wanted to be intentional about a few things. One of those intentional decisions surrounded date night with my husband.  We've always gone out, taken babysitters up on their offers, and spent quality time together.  At the time last summer it was not something that we did with scheduled regularity.  With about 40 weeks left in our family before a third child prayerfully arrived we initiated Friday Date Night.

What are the ingredients for Date Night? Friday nights left uncommitted to others + a standing sitter (+ a rain or shine attitude) = Date Night success. 

For anyone beginning a journey of being intentional with their spouse I would offer these encouraging words. It may be hard and you may have discussions or moments that you never intended but you may surprise yourself in the moments of opportunity for fun and joy to abound. In addition to resting in knowing that you love your spouse you will draw closer in remembering how much you like each other too. So whether you head out together for coffee and shopping at Target, you get all dolled up and sip sparkling beverages at a fancy restaurant or you meet friends for dinner....just do it. 

We’re approaching the end of our 40 first dates. Our newborn will hopefully be with us soon.  As this means a break in the ease of running out on a Friday night I know that it doesn't mean the end of our Date Nights.   We love them too much to turn back!